Your boyfriend will always want to show you that he is the boss. But that really cannot be an unsaid rule. You too need to be heard sometimes. But how do you do this? Here are some clever ways to deal with a boyfriend who doesn’t listen.
Give him importance
When you give your boyfriend importance and show Clever him you care he will feel convinced into listening to you. He will in return want to give you as much importance and care and listen to you. This is a clever way to deal with a boyfriend who doesn’t listen.
Fathom the reason behind his not listening to you
Do you always try to shove your views and opinions down his throat and expect him to do as you say? If that is so then he’s not to blame. Try to listen to what he has to say and what his opinions or suggestions are. This is a way to get him to listen to you.
Hear him out first
Another way to get him to listen to you is by first learning to hear him out. Once he’s had his say then ask him to explain further and elaborate etcetera and make your side of suggestion or recommendation and see how he listens to you without squirming.
Don’t create a scene in retrospect
Don’t create a scene in retrospect If he decides not to listen. Let him have his way at the moment and if things have not worked out then you could gently call his attention to it without rebuking him. If you handle it rightly he will listen later.
Talking to the walls
You’d have noticed that he’s not attentive every time you speak. It is like talking to the walls. The next time you could do the same thing by making yourself scarce when he speaks. A while later he will realize that you were not there to hear him.
Handle him diplomatically
The best way to get him to listen to you is by being diplomatic. Cajole and pamper his ego and praise him a little and then say what you want to tell him. This is a clever way to work wonders with your boyfriend to get him to listen to you.
Put your point across
Learn not to interrupt him when he says something. Hear him out to the full before you question him or probe further into the matter. Guys don’t like to be interrupted even before they have finished. When you do this you will find that he too listens to you.